I love, love, love StoryCorps. That’s the oral history project started in 2003 and probably most well known through its weekly podcasts on NPR and the compilation book and CD, “Listening Is an Act of Love: A Celebration of American Life from the StoryCorps Project.”
StoryCorps provides permanent and mobile recording studios around the country where people reserve a spot to interview someone they know for a 40-minute session and come away with a broadcast-quality recording. The recording also goes into the archive of the American Folklife Center at the Library of Congress.
Most people interview a family member or someone who is an important part of their lives. The results, which are excerpted for the podcast, are gems. Two cousins reminisce about the daunting Miss Devine who took them to Sunday School, a hospital worker tells her friend how she prays over every surgical instrument pack she assembles for patients awaiting surgery, and a garrulous old man talks about how he met his wife of 75 years.
I rarely make it through a podcast without getting choked up, and I dare you to make it through Chloe Smith recently interviewing Willie Jefferson, the custodian at her school, without getting a little teary. (Scroll down the Listen page to find Chloe's interview podcast, "Custodian of Grace"). I think what gets me is the privilege I feel at witnessing people's willingness to open themselves to each other. There must be something about the intimacy of the recording booth that lets people be more relaxed about asking and answering questions about their lives.
There are several people I wish I had had the opportunity to interview, one of whom is my grandmother on my mother’s side. I would ask her what it was like to move her three children all the way to Japan by herself when my grandfather was stationed there after WWII. I would ask her how she started drawing and painting, and what she thought of Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance.
My grandmother isn’t around anymore, but my parents are, as well as many of my other relatives. I recently toted a video camera to my folks’ house to record some information about where key papers are kept, but also snapped it on any time a family story came up. I was so glad I did that I’m going to do it again while we’re all together this Thanksgiving weekend.
Families traditionally being together over Thanksgiving is why StoryCorps has designated the day after Thanksgiving, November 27, as National Day of Listening. Even if no tapes or cameras are rolling, asking the important people in our lives to tell us their story and really listening to them is one of the greatest ways to show our love.